Build a mission-ready marriage.
Valor & Vows exists to equip couples to weather the unique challenges of military life and create God-centered relationships built to last.
Our Mission
"Empowering military couples to build resilient, God-centered marriages through faith-based resources, practical tools, and transformative support."
Three Strands, One Purpose
“Though one may be overpowered by another, two can withstand him. And a threefold cord is not quickly broken.”
Ecclesiastes 4:12 NKJV
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Valor and Vows: A Tactical Guide to a Mission-Ready Marriage is a groundbreaking resource for military couples seeking to strengthen their marriages amidst the unique challenges of service life. Drawing from over two decades of combined experience in military service, ministry, and marriage coaching, the Spencers offer practical tools and biblical principles to navigate deployments, high operational tempos, and the constant transitions of military life.
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We’re the Spencers
Chaplain, Major Matthew Spencer and Kristina Spencer bring over 20 years of combined experience in ministry, counseling, and leadership to their work with military couples and families. Matt, a USAF Chaplain with a background in Security Forces, provides pastoral care, spiritual growth opportunities, and worship leadership to Airmen and their families, leveraging his extensive service across enlisted and officer roles worldwide. Kristina, an ordained minister, XO Marriage content writer, and certified marriage mediator, has led impactful women’s ministries, young adult groups, and large-scale events while mentoring others in their faith and relationships. Together, they are passionate about equipping couples with practical strategies and biblical principles to build resilient, God-centered marriages, inspiring hope and transformation through their personal and professional experiences.